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Word-for-word scripts for saying no to family, friends and bosses without the apology spiral. Yours the moment you subscribe, then the essays when there's something worth saying. Unsubscribe whenever; I won't take it personally.
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01 / Essays first
Every long-form piece arrives in your inbox before it appears on the site. If you only want one thing, this is the thing.
02 / Half-thoughts
The smaller observations that don't earn an essay but deserve to exist somewhere. Roughly: things I caught myself thinking that survived a second pass.
03 / Resources, first
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04 / Build notes
Periodic notes from inside the project itself — what's working, what's not, what I learned that you might find useful for your own thing.
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